I know you have a lot of questions. I will do my best to answer them here.
Initially email is my preferred method of contact.
You may book an appointment as far as 6 months in advance. For same day bookings, I prefer at least 2 hours notice. Same day bookings are available for gentlemen I have screened and met with before. More screening time may be required for gentlemen providing references. For travel to another city or state I a prefer two to three days notice.
If your email is inappropriate in any way, it is discarded. Due to travel and screening, please allow adequate time for me to respond.
Screening is about my safety, not wasting my time, and organization. I want to know who I am meeting. I want to feel safe to provide an enjoyable experience. I do not wish to meet with anyone who does not value my need to feel safe. Feeling safe in your presence is the key to building trust and the beginning of a glorious experience.
I require a photo ID to meet for screening. I will not use your information in anyway except to verify who you are. I also accept two references from other reputable providers. I will still need your full name, phone number email address and a selfie.
I also screen and require a deposit to limit time wasters. I use this method to separate time wasters and potential clients.
While I appreciate your need for discretion, my safety is as important as your privacy. Trust is an integral part of our relationship. If I cannot verify you, I cannot see you.
A 25% deposit solidifies our date and reserves my time. My method for screening against time wasters is a deposit. The deposit goes towards our date. If screening and deposit does not work for you, please contact another provider who does not require these methods.
I expect you to present me with my fees at the beginning of each appointment. If we are in public, please be discreet and use a small gift bag or another method of payment discussed beforehand. In private, please present my rate in a white envelope or greeting card. I expect you to be a gentleman at all times and respect any boundaries that I have. To make our date as enjoyable as possible, please be respectful, well groomed, freshly showered and have minty-fresh breath.
In the unlikely event that I must cancel, your deposit will be refunded in full or we can also reschedule. Deposits are nonrefundable. You may book another appointment using the same deposit within 30 days. Cancellations under 48 hours require a cancellation fee of 50% of the time you booked.
Absolutely, but at a non-negotiable specialized rate. I will also still require screening and a deposit.
My rates are non-negotiable. Please don't try to negotiate with me; I find it offensive and will end all communication immediately. The only negotiation allowed is while discussing a monthly arrangement.
Yes, I love to travel. With enough notice, I can fly to meet you anywhere! I require a first date before traveling with someone I have never met. If we are not well acquainted, I will require my own room. Travel expenses are prepaid along with the deposit.
I love gifts, although they are not required or expected. If you wish to indulge me, please view one of my wishlists for a list of some things that will bring a smile to my face.